In Western culture ever since the days of the Greek and Roman Empires the wedding ring set of engagement and wedding rings has been worn on the fourth finger of the left hand. In those days people believed that a vein called the Vena Amoris ran directly from this finger to the heart. Today our knowledge of anatomy tells us that there is no such vein but the tradition of putting first the engagement ring and then both rings on the “ring finger” of the left hand persists. But, how to wear a wedding ring set is really up to you and not some dusty old memory of ancient Rome.
Bridal Ring Set versus Wedding Ring Set
The engagement ring and wedding ring of the woman is the bridal ring set. Add the man’s wedding ring and you have the wedding ring set. Many sets are made with matching precious metals, designs, and gemstones. Following the Vena Amoris tradition both the man and woman may choose to wear their rings on the fourth finger of the left hand. A woman may have a diamond solitaire engagement ring or a pave ring with diamonds around the entire circumference for both rings in the bridal ring set. But, her husband may choose an unadorned precious metal ring that will withstand the wear and tear of work and sports over the years. Thus, men’s and women’s rings in the wedding ring set may or may not match.
Engagement and Wedding Ring Symbolism
When an engagement ring is given, it is to propose marriage and symbolizes love and commitment. The wedding ring is given at the wedding ceremony and symbolizes eternal love within the bounds of marriage. An eternity band is commonly given at an important anniversary and further symbolizes eternal love and commitment. A newly wed woman does not need to worry about where to put that ring for another 25 or 50 years. Because the eternal commitment of the wedding is more important than the promise to marry, most women wear the wedding ring closer to their heart.
Options for How to Wear a Wedding Ring Set
Engagement and wedding rings are tokens of our love and devotion. Should you use symbolism as a guide when deciding how to wear a wedding ring set or simply wear the rings when and where you choose? The first ring in the wedding ring set that a woman wears is the engagement ring. When she puts on her wedding ring, should it go on next or should the engagement ring be removed and then placed second so that the wedding ring is closer to the heart? You can follow tradition and place the wedding ring closer to the heart or choose the arrangement that you believe is most attractive? The choice is yours. Additionally, the wedding and engagement rings need not go on the same finger. In fact, a woman may choose to wear her delicate engagement ring with a diamond centerpiece and sapphire side stones for special occasions or on a different finger.
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